Helping Them
Choose Life Over Addiction

I know it’s tough seeing someone you love stuck in addiction. I’ve been there, and I’m here to help talk straight with them, and get them to a place where there ready to choose life over an addiction.

You’re not alone

Maybe you're waking up every day feeling lost, worn out, like you’re stuck and don’t know what to do. Your heart’s breaking, your mind’s spinning, and you just want someone to step in and help. I’ve been there. I’ll come sit with them, try to break through, and nudge them toward something better. You don’t have to do this alone—I'm here to do this with you.

Looking to Help a Loved One?

You remember how they used to be, full of dreams, big plans, that spark? Now it’s like they’re gone, swallowed up by addiction, and you’re left staring at this empty shell—scared, guilty, wondering where it all went wrong. You’re not alone in this. I see that weight you’re carrying and, I know it’s tough when you feel stuck, like there’s no way to reach them. But there is.I’m not saying they’re weak or broken—they’re just lost right now. And you? You just need someone to step in, say the right thing, give them a shot at climbing out. That’s where I come in. I’ve been around this mess before, and I’ll sit with them, talk real, try to pull them back to that person you know they can be—the one who’s still in there, ready to live again. Ready to take that step to get the help they need.Let me jump in with you. Help you to get them to take that first step. You deserve to see them free from this, and I’m here to walk it with you, alright.

About Me

As someone who has lived through many years of addiction, jail and even prison I know how hard it can be to get things turned around, but I also know it's not impossible. I spent 17 years of my life addicted to Meth and Heroin, 11 of those years I spent selling the drugs and 2 of those years I spent behind bars in state prison.It was a long hard and hopeless road for me. My family worried and prayed that I would somehow survive it all only to watch me fall time and time again. In 2013 at the age of 32 I was facing the possibility of prison again if I didn’t stop selling heroin or it would be an overdose that got me instead. That's when I made the decision that changed my life. I leaned into my faith and broke away from the lifestyle that was tearing me apart. It was a hard road to freedom but over time it became easier.
Today I have many years clean and I no longer struggle with addiction in any form. I am the lead pastor of a local church and am happily married with children and debt free.

I understand your pain.
I've lived it. And I can help.

I’ve been where they are. I know those struggles firsthand. My own run with drugs took me down a dark road—pain, hopelessness, just wrecking myself. For years, I fought that cycle, crashing again and again, feeling like there was no way out. Everything I cared about—my health, my relationships, me—was slipping away. At my lowest, I had two choices: keep sinking or fight back. I chose to fight. Getting help? Man, it wasn’t easy, but it was the best move I ever made. I learned recovery’s more than just dropping the junk—it’s about rebuilding, finding respect for yourself, getting back to who you’re meant to be.Addiction’s got them thinking they’re alone, that they’re stuck for good—but I’m proof that’s a lie. I’ve walked that road, took the hits, and came out stronger. Now, I see you hurting, wanting them back, and I’m here to help.I’ll sit with them, talk straight, try to break through and point them to real help—like a church or a counselor, rehab and detox that can carry it forward. I'm hear to help you have that conversation with them, to help them take that step to get help.

Your Questions, Answered

Accordion Fix

I provide support and offer help with strategic planning for anyone wanting to have a heart to heart with a loved one who is struggling with addiction. My goal is to use my own past experiences with addiction and recovery to help talk your loved one into getting the help that they need. In short, I am a life coach that specializes in coaching people into choosing sobriety over addiction. After we get your loved one into treatment I will provide weekly check-in phone calls for up to 8 weeks with them.

Anyone that is in need of help talking to a loved one who is stuck in addiction of any kind.

I offer a conversation that could change everything—sharing my story of overcoming 17 years of addiction and prison to show it’s possible. I’ll listen, encourage, and coach you toward treatment and a fresh start, with no judgment.

If you decide to hire me we will start with an honest, heartfelt conversation—usually over the phone/zoom. I’ll share what worked for me, answer your questions, and ask you for as much information on the situation as you can possibly give so that we can plan our next step. We will then plan the best time and place to hold the coaching session with your loved one. Addicts can be unpredictable so we will stay in communication the week before the session in case something needs to change. During that week before the session I will provide you with as many treatment options as I can. It will be up to you to make the proper phone calls to set up detox or rehab your loved one. It is best that they be able to go directly into detox or rehab after the session if possible. Before the session I will meet with you one hour prior to the meeting. Once the session starts I will do all that I can to support you and to add value to the conversation. I will do all I can to help your loved one see the path to recovery and to focus them on the next step, like entering treatment.

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What to expect

  • I want to ensure that your experience with me is comfortable and clear. You can invite me to your home or choose a cozy place, like a café, for our meeting.

  • If our conversation involves a loved one, you can decide whether to let them know in advance or keep it a surprise.

  • The length of our conversation will depend on your needs, and we can discuss that beforehand.

  • If faith and prayer are important to you, I am open to incorporating that into our time together.

  • First consultation is free. Phone call or zoom.

  • Intervention support package includes me personally walking beside you through one intervention followed up by a weekly 30 minute phone call with your loved one for up to 8 weeks after the intervention.

  • My goal is to create a space of trust, understanding, and support. If you have any questions or preferences, please feel free to share them—I’m here for you!

Connect when
You’re Ready

Let's develop a recovery plan that works on your terms.
No matter where you are, you don't have to do this alone.
Contact me today and let's start creating the future you deserve.

Your Questions, Answered

Accordion Fix

I provide support and offer help with strategic planning for anyone wanting to have a heart to heart with a loved one who is struggling with addiction. My goal is to use my own past experiences with addiction and recovery to help talk your loved one into getting the help that they need. In short, I am a life coach that specializes in coaching people into choosing sobriety over addiction. After we get your loved one into treatment I will provide weekly check-in phone calls for up to 8 weeks with them.

Anyone that is in need of help talking to a loved one who is stuck in addiction of any kind.

I offer a conversation that could change everything—sharing my story of overcoming 17 years of addiction and prison to show it’s possible. I’ll listen, encourage, and coach you toward treatment and a fresh start, with no judgment.

If you decide to hire me we will start with an honest, heartfelt conversation—usually over the phone/zoom. I’ll share what worked for me, answer your questions, and ask you for as much information on the situation as you can possibly give so that we can plan our next step. We will then plan the best time and place to hold the coaching session with your loved one. Addicts can be unpredictable so we will stay in communication the week before the session in case something needs to change. During that week before the session I will provide you with as many treatment options as I can. It will be up to you to make the proper phone calls to set up detox or rehab your loved one. It is best that they be able to go directly into detox or rehab after the session if possible. Before the session I will meet with you one hour prior to the meeting. Once the session starts I will do all that I can to support you and to add value to the conversation. I will do all I can to help your loved one see the path to recovery and to focus them on the next step, like entering treatment.

Not at all. Faith helped me, but I’m here for everyone—faith or no faith. My goal is to help you choose life, however you find the strength to do it.

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I’m not a therapist or a replacement for rehab—I’m a coach who’s lived it. I’ve been an addict, a dealer, and a prisoner, and I made it out. My strength is relating to you and inspiring that first step, not just treating symptoms.

Support package starts at $2000 and includes the following: Initial meeting with me via Zoom call. Up to one hour. Help finding the right treatment program for your loved one. Access to me personally the week before the intervention. One intervention support and coaching session with me personally. 8 weekly check-in phone calls.

The first win is deciding to try—that can happen in one talk. Real change takes time, but I’ve seen people choose treatment and start healing within days or weeks of connecting with me.

I’ve been where you are—17 years addicted, 2 in prison—and I’m now clean, a pastor, and a dad. I’ve coached others like you to choose life. My life is proof it’s possible.

Just reach out—email me at [insert contact] or call [insert number]. Tell me your story or your loved one’s, and I’ll take it from there with 100% effort.

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Let's Connect

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Bend, Oregon, United States

+1 (458) 314-4694

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About Me

As someone who has lived through many years of addiction, jail and even prison I know how hard it can be to get things turned around, but I also know it's not impossible. I spent 17 years of my life addicted to Meth and Heroin, 11 of those years I spent selling the drugs and 2 of those years I spent behind bars in state prison.It was a long hard and hopeless road for me. My family worried and prayed that I would somehow survive it all only to watch me fall time and time again. In 2013 at the age of 32 I was facing the possibility of prison again if I didn’t stop selling heroin or it would have been an overdose that got me instead. That's when I made the decision that changed my life. I leaned into my faith and broke away from the lifestyle that was tearing me apart. It was a hard road to freedom but over time it became easier.
Today I have many years clean and I no longer struggle with addiction in any form. I am the lead pastor of a local church and am happily married with children and debt free.

In addition I have worked with addicts for many years now and have a great gift to share with them and that is the gift of hope. The hope of seeing someone who was just like them and had everything going against them but was able to rise above and take back their life. Today I am a thriving productive member of the community and believe if it can work for me then it can work for anyone!I would love to walk alongside you through one of the most important conversations of your loved ones life. I know from personal experience that in some cases it is literally life or death and I will do everything I can to talk to your loved one in hope that they will enter treatment and choose life. My qualifications are simple. I have been through it all and have come out clean on the other side. In addition I have had many conversations with addicts and have had success in coaching them into making the best choice of their lives. I consider myself a life coach who specializes in leading people to choose life over death when it matters the most. Please reach out and let me know how I can help. I promise to always give 100%. There is hope!Also you or your loved one do not have to be people of faith for me to step in and help. Faith or no faith I believe that life is precious and I will do what I can to preserve it.

  • Through an individualized approach and support, I help clients strategize and execute a successful conversation with a loved one in hope of seeing them choose life over addiction and start the process of being set free from substance dependence and unhealthy habits.

  • I will come in person and offer my full support. I will sit with you and your loved one side by side for as long as the conversation needs to go.

  • I also provide weekly check-ins with your loved one where I will continue to encourage them after they complete detox.

  • The first consultation is free. Phone call or Zoom.

  • The intervention support package includes one intervention followed by a weekly 30-minute phone call with your loved one for up to 8 weeks after the intervention.

  • Having walked this path myself, I offer compassionate, non-judgmental support.

Testimonials

Mark Reynolds

Working with my recovery mentor completely changed my life. I struggled with alcohol addiction for years, trying and failing to quit on my own. The personalized support and guidance I received helped me understand the root of my addiction and develop real strategies to overcome it. Now, I am over two years sober and have never felt more in control of my life. I finally have the confidence and tools to maintain my sobriety long-term.

Lisa Mitchell

After a surgery, I became dependent on prescription painkillers, and my life spiraled out of control. I was in denial about my addiction, but my mentor helped me see the impact it was having on my life and guided me toward recovery. Through our sessions, I learned how to manage pain in healthier ways, regain my mental clarity, and reconnect with my loved ones. Now, I feel free again and in control of my future. I am so grateful for the support that helped me turn my life around.

Mark Reynolds

Working with my recovery mentor completely changed my life. I struggled with alcohol addiction for years, trying and failing to quit on my own. The personalized support and guidance I received helped me understand the root of my addiction and develop real strategies to overcome it. Now, I am over two years sober and have never felt more in control of my life. I finally have the confidence and tools to maintain my sobriety long-term.